Do I have your attention? I've been following a bit of a debate that's been going on regarding celibacy for priesthood holders in the Catholic Church (see cnn.com). A certain prominant member of clergy in the church, with a cute last name, has been caught having an affair. He has confessed that he has been involved with this woman for several years, and that they are in love. I believe I read he had been considering if he should leave the priesthood for her. So now the question being posed (not for the first, or last time) is whether celibacy is really required to hold that holy position.
I have every respect for these men who have devoted their life to God. The majority of them are doing their best to keep themselves pure and focused on a life of serving God. They teach, they serve, and they advocate for the souls of men and women. I understand the principle behind their dedication to celibacy. That being said, I personally believe that a man can be holy, serve God with all his heart, AND be married. I actually believe that marriage can enhance his life and further his efforts. Marriage is a partnership, and hopefully the ultimate friendship. To have a partner, who believes what you believe, and works towards what you work toward with you, can only help you succeed all the more. In my church, we have a lay priesthood, meaning that they are not paid, and for the most part have other jobs outside of their church duties. For married couples, each person might have their own duties, or calling, but they support each other in those endeavors. I don't believe that God intended for us to be alone, in this life or the life that follows. The craving to be loved and love others is a good one, and God provided us with ways to address that yearning. Marriage is consecrated by God, and I believe he provided it to us for our ultimate happiness. Those who hold the priesthood are entitled to the blessings that marriage can bring along with every other faithful person. Those are my thoughts on the subject. What are your thoughts?
1 comment:
Well said.
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